Can't save user id in my content type that have realation with usererg

System Information
  • Strapi Version: 4.0.2
  • **Operating System **: MacOS Monterey
  • **Database **: sqlite
  • Node Version: v14.18.2
  • NPM Version: 6.14.15
  • Yarn Version: 1.22.10

I have a content type called wish ( singler : wish, plural: wishes ), that have a relation with user of many-to-one, that’s mean one user can have many wishes, and one wish belongs to one user,
I’m trying to execute this mutation

mutation {
  createWish(data: { wish: "I wish my code work", users_permissions_user: 1 }) {
    data {

it saved the wish but it does not save the user id , and when I go check my content manager under user , indeed I can’t see my wish related to that user, same in wish content manager

Is there any thing I miss
Thanks in advance